Entering the door of Buddhism

There are some whom I have met who proclaim they are Buddhists just because that is what is registered as their religion. They have no knowledge of what it means to be Buddhist. In fact to become Buddhists one has to truly take refuge in the Buddha, Dharma (the teachings of Buddha) and the Sangha (teachers of the Dharma), the Triple Gems. What does it mean to take refuge? It is to solely believe in and follow the Triple Gems. To be able to do so, one should know who is the Buddha and what his teachings are so one understand and can follow without deviation. Buddha is the fully enlightened one who has purified all defilements. He has realized the path towards the end of suffering and permanent bliss which all beings can take and become Buddha as well. He is thus the ultimate refuge. There is not just one Buddha, such as the historical Buddha of our eon, Shakyamuni Buddha. Through the eons there have been many who became Buddha and as per Shakyamuni Buddha's prophecy in the Sutras (records of Buddha's teachings), many other Buddhists will become Buddhas. Why be a Buddhist? All orthodox religions should be respected as they are like candles that bring light to the darkness of lives and teach us to be good and kind. Before becoming a Buddhist, one should thoroughly examine the teachings and what Buddhism is about. This is as what Buddha said "Ehipassiko" (Come and see). Only when one is satisfied, then take refuge and do not waver. Personally I came from a Buddhist family, but some schoolmates shared the Christian gospel with me when I was in school. I took time to think about and find out more about each religiom and what feels more suitable for me. For me the Genesis chapter of the bible seemed off as I could not comprehend why taking an apple is a sin and why woman is made from man. It seemed to be myth rather than real. I was uncomfortable as well with the concept that sins will be forgiven and have no repercussions as long as you follow the God. Karma, cause and result seemed to be fair. I also believed to end suffering one should have to work hard and just going to heaven from accepting God seems off. These were my considerations. Even though I did not choose to be a Christian, it did not mean I think others should not follow the religion or that it is not good. There have been many admirable saints like Mother Theresa and staunch Christians who have contributed so much to humanity. If you are thinking to become a Buddhist or you are Buddhist on paper and want to become a true Buddhist, please take the time to really examine what the teachings are and ask questions to Buddhist teachers. Once you are convinced, take the refuge vows which will strengthen your resolve not to waver. Then you will truly enter the gateway to Buddhism and progress on the path to enlightenment.